There’s nothing that can ensure a swift, decisive kick to your soul’s nuts like finding out your snugglebunny has been dying inside for the last two months, four months, year, what-have you.
Other times, people try to avoid breaking up with their partners because they worry about what it says about them.
One of the most common examples of this are people who realize they are no longer attracted to their partners.
Even now, it’s a fairly open and shut case: he needs to break up with his girlfriend already.
The problem is example of why it’s so hard to break up with someone, even when you know it needs to happen, laid out in pure text. Our brains are very good at throwing roadblocks in our way and making us talk ourselves out of doing what we know we need to do.